I had a rehearsal today with an actor who is quite good for being a new actor.
That is to say that he’s been at it for three years.
He left a very successful career making six figures a year to become poor and be an actor with no prior training or experience.
And he’s done quite well for himself. He’s had a couple reoccurring roles on soaps as well as a few other principals on cable and a small part in a movie for HBO that he deemed “not very good.”
All without an agent.
Needless to say, I was impressed. In describing his resume (which I’d tactfully inquired about), I realized that he’s almost surpassed what has taken me almost a lifetime to achieve.
Of course, he wasn’t as good as me.
Don’t misunderstand. I’m not being boastful, just honest. Though I still sell youth, I’m an old dog. I’ve been at this since before I could understand it. When it was just fun and no achievement at it meant anything. I’ve spent hundreds of hours studying and reading and being with auditions and performance. I now have a technique and an emotional body to draw from. I have a technical way of working which I think will probably elude him until time and study gives him that.
But as we went over our scene, I was impressed with his freshness. How he got better quickly and how what he did came naturally without technique.
And how he came at the whole game with a great deal of confidence.
I was reminded how that is my biggest roadblock.
“Trust yourself” one of my agents said the other day when I was surprised at her complimenting my read for a recent audition I’d put on tape and deemed not very good due to my nerves.
Some part of me doesn’t trust myself enough when it matters. For the big whigs : )
I don’t feel fully welcome at the party and so I arrive nervous and already apologizing for my attire.
When in fact if I fully wore whatever I came in – having carefully selected my party dress and the speech to say with it – I just might find myself the belle of the ball. After all, I didn’t crash the party. I was invited.
There is the acting and then there is the aura that one wears when one shows up.
That grace under pressure that can never be acted.
But rather, just exists in a bright young thing. OR – can be rediscovered by an old dog (who’s not that old, just a little tired) who is finally starting to remember and live what it is to be fresh.